If it says outdated client then join in a 1.14.3 version rather than 1.14.4, as it has been recently released and applecraft is not .4
Which ip did you connect to, and can you send a screenshot or type out what it says when you try to connect?
Wilderness was amazing when i played it. And i agree with the point that once you get raided (usually at the beginning) you will be pissed...
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